From Shy to Social Butterfly: How to Overcome Social Anxiety and Become a People Magnet
How to be a people magnet?
How to enhance your social circle?
How to influence people?
How to overcome social anxiety?
Following are ten ways by which you can be a people magnet:-
1. Don’t criticize, condemn or complain
Whenever you meet people try to avoid criticism or complain. Always be positive and optimistic in your approach. When you are filled with positively you will find that the people around you also start behaving in a positive manner.
2. Give honest and sincere appreciation
Human beings crave for acknowledgement. It is human tendency to feel happy when received appreciation or applause. Give honest and sincere appreciation to make people like you. It doesn’t mean that you should be a flatterer.
3. Try to be understanding
Be empathetic and sympathetic. When you understand other people’s problems automatically they also will understand what are your problems.
4. Smile
Use your smile to change the world but don’t let the world change your smile. Smile is the best accessory which a person can carry.
5. Be interested in other people
If you are interested in other people automatically you will find that they are also interested in you.
6. Remember that a person’s name matters
A person’s name is the greatest connection to their own identity and individuality. It is the most important word in the world to that person. It is the one way we can easily get someone’s attention.
7. Be a good listener
Listening is key to all effective communication. Without the ability to listen effectively, messages can be easily misunderstood. As a result, communication breaks down and the sender of the message can be annoyed
8. Begin in a friendly way
While communicating always begin in a friendly way to make the other person comfortable.
9. Avoid an argument
There is no harm in presenting your own viewpoint but if you feel that it is being converted into an argument then stop doing it.
10. See things from their point of you
Put your feet in others’ shoes and then you will see the world around you will change.
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